6/07/2013

"On the Sixth Day, He Gave Us Cable"...& Battling the Packed Stress from South Loop to Logan Square

To think, this time last week, I was hanging out at the place I called home for 26 years while in limbo - waiting to move into our new place in Logan Square with our South Loop life packed up in the 17 foot U-Haul on the driveway.

A move like this had many components: some exciting, some stressful:


  • Trying to remember all of the small details was a pain in the ass. Did I forget to cancel this? Did I remember to change my address for that? What time on Saturday are we going to be able to move it? What do you mean I didn't bring all of the cable equipment back that I was supposed to? There was just so much going on, and trying to manage it all was a hassle.
  • Luckily, I had a great group of people helping us move out of the South Loop and another great group helping us move into our Logan Square abode. So much had to get packed, wedged, unscrewed, (random verb)ed...you name the verb, it was probably done in the moving process. These groups of people were the main reason I was able to keep it together throughout the three day process.
  • Speaking of the moving truck (ok, I'll just bring it up), I was terrified to drive that behemoth. The previous biggest vehicle that I've ever drove was one of my parent's mini-vans back when I was 18 or so. This was no mini-van, but rather a 17 foot truck, packed upwards, across and side-to-side with expensive furniture, clothes, books, electronics & other random stuff. If you've ever drove one of these trucks for moving, you may have had the same apprehension that I did. For me, I'm not sure if the toughest thing about driving it was (1) being stressed from the move and not being completely focused and ready to drive the vehicle, (2) never having ever drove a vehicle of that size, (3) the on-and-off rain bursts that occurred, fittingly enough between the hours of 4-5:30pm, (4) not fully trusting myself to read the side mirrors correctly and constantly wanting to look through a rear-view mirror that does not exist or (5) driving through rush hour. After I got done with driving this back to my parents, I just wanted to pass the hell out.
  • Once we moved in, what was there to do for six days without cable and internet? Most of this time between Saturday evening and today, I was occupied with stuff outside of the apartment, so I didn't worry about this problem as much as I could have. Night 1 without the web led me to look at old newspaper articles of newspapers that I saved from famous events in my lifetime (i.e. death of Michael Jackson; night 2 was spent at a Chicago bar with my friend Angie and then passing out with Jen much earlier than I normally would go to bed; night 3 was spent in part listening to Game 7 of the Heat/Pacers on my new radio app (how I imagine people in the 20s listening to the radio...on their apps); night 4 was watching Entourage on DVD for the first time in a long time with Jen; night 5 was bowling in the burbs...and on the 6th day, He gave us cable.

    A couple of my bowling teammates wondered what I did without cable/Internet at our place for 5 days. Makes you wonder what the next wave of technology will be consuming our lives so much in the next 10-20 years that will make future generations of people who move wonder "how was I able to live without this for almost a week?" Internet and cable have become as common to most first-world citizens as breathing and heart disease.
  • Now - the buying of new stuff. What gets added to the list of stuff we need? Charcoal grill, check. New TV for the bedroom, check. New computer desk for my currently chaotic office, check. Patience is key for both me and Jen as we strive to satisfy all of our material needs to be met as soon as possible but realizing that certain things (like the TV) could probably wait a little bit.

These are just a few of the nuggets that came from the moving process. It was a lot more stressful for some reason this time around, but the added stress gave way to more satisfaction in the moving-in process than last year did.

Have you moved recently? I'd love to hear how you handled the stressors that came with the move - or if you were able to avoid stress in the process altogether.

6/02/2013

Chapter 12 Fit Happens: The Final Four

Before I go into this chapter's topic, here are the latest standings, as of June 1:

User lbs %

Dave -18.8 lbs -6.51 %

Hippo -17.2 lbs -6.97 %

LionEsquire -18.0 lbs -7.38 %

B-Bo Knows Weight Loss -31.6 lbs -13.41 %

Overall, May was a brutal month for the contest participants. I was expecting a wall for myself, but I figured I'd break through. But that wasn't the case. Apparently, I haven't adjusted my workout regimen or increased the intensity enough to break through the 203/204 pound marker. The final four is proving to be a tough barrier to break through.

However, the biggest take away from this month is not about my weight loss exploits, but rather my friends who regressed this month. Hippo and Chris both gained a decent amount of weight in May, which I was not expecting given their four month track record in the contest, shown by steady decreased weight loss.

For them, I believe this will prove to be a crossroads in their future health for 2013. A strong bounce back in June could prove to be a catalyst for the rest of the year. A bad June might signal that the bad habits that crept into our lives have resurfaced.

By no means did we ever think it'd be easy. For the most part, we have made it look easy, although I've heard that it's easier for guys to lose weight (although I'm not sure if that's a myth).

Here's to hoping that my weight loss crew and I end the last month of Fit Happens on a strong note.

Step one in that, at least for me and Chris, is a 5k at Lincoln Park Zoo. Wish me luck.

5/31/2013

Stink of the Sox: How Getting Clubbed by Cubs Shouldn't Be A Surprise (and Why I Expect Further Stink)

Entering the 2013 season, I had lower fan expectations than most when it came to the Chicago White Sox, who I believed overachieved greatly last season in holding first place in the AL Central for most of the second half of the season before being edged out by the eventual pennant winners Detroit Tigers.

My prediction of 76-86 was based on my questions with guys who had tough shoes to fill (Flowers replacing Pierzynski), who strike out too much for how little they get on base (Viciedo, Alexi), guys who would have a difficult time duplicating previous seasons (Sale, Peavy), and guys who would likely tail off at some point (Konerko).

I have been wrong so far about my pre-season assessment of Sale and Peavy, but otherwise most of my suspicions for a tail-off this season have been proved true, especially in their latest series versus their National League counterparts about 10 miles north.

The White Sox hitters have been beyond putrid this season. Check out some of these team stats entering Thursday's game (their third loss to the Cubs), accompanied by their AL rank (out of 15 teams). And remember that the Astros (one of the worst teams in the majors) are now in this league:

  • .240 batting average (13th)
  • .293 on-base percentage (15th)
  • .379 slugging (13th)
  • .672 OBP (15th)
  • 126 extra base hits (15th)
  • 121 walks (15th)
Trying to find a good stat from White Sox hitters is like trying to find Where's Waldo as a kid when the pages weren't pre-circled. If it wasn't for the stellar pitching of Sale & Peavy, this team would be much much worse than their 24-27 record indicates. It's actually quite surprising that they've even gotten this many wins.

On the other side of town...the Cubs have actually showed some promise, more than most people were expecting.

Here are the Cubs stats in the same categories entering play on Thursday:

  • .248 batting average (8th - a higher average even though pitchers have to hit in NL)
  • .302 on-base percentage (12th - one of the things really holding this offense back from being even better)
  • .411 slugging (3rd)
  • .713 OBP (8th)
  • 172 extra base hits (1st in NL, 4th in the majors). 
  • 118 walks (15th)

Most of these stats are not too shabby, especially for a team that sports a 22-30 record. Strange thing about their record is their runs for vs. runs allowed (Cubs have plated 214 runs to their opponents 208, including Thursday). These are stats that I like to use to see what teams might have deceiving records at a certain point in the year (I like to start taking stats/trends seriously around the 35-40 game mark). This contrasts the Sox luck of scoring only 183 runs while allowing 212.

Yes, at the end of the year, the record is what tells the story, especially of who is playing in the postseason and who is joining Terrell Owens and just eating popcorn in October. And by the time this season ends, I believe it will be the Cubs who will have bragging rights (at least with win totals) over their South Side brethren. 

With one game left in their season series with the South Siders on a yet-to-be-determined date, the Cubs clinched the Crosstown Cup with their win Thursday. Whenever their next game might be, I believe we will be looking at a North Side team that will have overtaken the White Sox in wins.

5/23/2013

Out of (hockey)towners: Hockey Thoughts from Non-Hawks Fans in the Chicago Area

You might remember a blog series that I did before the 2012 NFL season began about people who live in/around Chicago and are fans of out-of-market teams. Seeing as though hockey is in season here (at least for a few more days), I decided to reach out to some of my hockey friends who have favorite teams outside of the Blackhawks.

Some of these gents - two of the Tims - were featured in the football blogs in August (one a Vikings fan, another of America's Team), so they have quite the background in rooting for non-Chicago entities.

With these friends of mine (four of them answered my questions), I was looking to see the roots of their hockey interest, what steered them to the teams they rooted for, and why not the Hawks?

I also gauged their thoughts on the large increase of Blackhawks fans who have (for the most part) been filling the United Center since Rocky Wirtz took over the team in 2007. They had varying thoughts on the bandwagon fans, ranging from acceptance to complete disgust.

Enjoy!




Bubba - Wings Man

The first one to answer (we'll call him Bubba) is a Red Wings fan, which seems to be the most common out-of-market team for Chicago people to root for. Needless to say, he's a happy camper as they sealed their third straight win to go up 3-1 in their best of 7 against the rival Hawks. When he answered this, they were down 1-0, so his answers may be different now than before, especially his predictions, which I'll mention below.

Bubba's roots as a Wings fan date back to his days of playing Sega Genesis, when the Red Wings had the best team in the game. "You couldn't beat them with (Steve) Yzerman, (Sergei) Federov, (Dino) Ciccarelli, and (Chris) Osgood," he said.

In a rivalry like Detroit/Chicago, you might find this nugget from Bubba surprising: not only does he not mind
the bandwagon of fans that have come cheer on the Blackhawks recently - he also cheers for the

Hawks...when they're not playing the Wings. He was rooting them on in the 2010 Stanley Cup - how many

Wings fans can you say did this? However, to be a true Hawks fan, Bubba has a few criteria.

"Give me stats and show me they know the game," he said. "If they know old players and key moments in history, I'd label them a true fan."

Entering the playoffs, Bubba said he would have considered this postseason a success if the Red Wings advanced past the first round of the playoffs.

"Since we did, I'm happy with whatever happens from now on," he said.

Having held onto his answers since Saturday, he might want to revise his Cup prediction (the Hawks losing to the Penguins in 6), but I'm sure he doesn't mind possibly being wrong about that.

So we know why he liked the Wings - why not the Hawks?

"Just not a Hawks fan," Bubba said. "I was born a winner and the Blackhawks were shitty for so long."


More Wings Please - The Tim C. Story

Another Wings fan in my group of friends, Tim C. fell in love with Motown's hockey team for a much different reason than Bubba. Instead of video games, Tim was introduced to hockey by Wings fans.

"After learning the history and traditions, I was hooked," he said.

Tim is a little more rough around the edges (to put it nicely) when it comes to his distaste of the Blackhawks and their fan base. As a kid, the Hawks were irrelevant to him, largely due to their lack of television presence.

"The Chicago Wolves had a better attendance rate," he said. "It's hard to root for a team that gets no local coverage."

When the Hawks won the Cup in 2010, Tim turned his TV and went to bed - so no celebrating with his Hawks friends like Bubba did.

His thoughts on the bandwagon fans are a lot different than Bubba's as well, and Tim certainly didn't mince words.

"Everyone is technically a bandwagon fan. They're no different," Tim said. "Now if you want me to answer what it would take for me to remove them of the label of low IQ'd morons, then my answer would be 'Shut up and listen. Learn something before you open your mouth because you spew verbal diarrhea.'"

Regarding his Wings, he has been very surprised to see the Wings playing so well, especially with their youth movement.

"For them to help grab the 7th seed, knock off the 2 seed, and give the 1 seed a run for their money," Tim said, "I'd say that's surprising and very impressive."

Like Bubba, Tim answered this before the Wings took a convincing series lead, so his series pick (Penguins over Hawks) may be different now.

"That's the match I'll root for if the Wings lose because it will be a classic," he said.




Another Tim, Another Out of Market Team A'Bruin

Yet another Tim in my group of friends can't root for the Hawks. This particular Tim roots for a team a little east of Detroit.

Tim W. became hooked on the Boston Bruins in a similar way that Tim C. did - with historical players on the team as he started following hockey. These greats included Ray Bourque, Cam Neely & Andy Moog, making his liking of the team come "pretty naturally."

He knew that his hometown team had some great players like Ed Belfour, Jeremy Roenick and Chris Chelios, but Tim couldn't bring himself to root for the Blackhawks.

"The Hawks and their poor management/ownership really steered me away from them," he said. "Not showing home games on TV really was a turn off and didn't make them seem fan friendly or accommodating to their fans."

Since his Bruins aren't really rivals in the truest sense of the word, Tim didn't find himself rooting against the Hawks like an average Red Wings fans would. Consider his Cup reaction in 2010 a cross between the Wings fans mentioned above.

"I was happy for the fans that I knew were true fans and tried to ignore the ones that just started following them," he said.

For those fans that fall in the latter category (the bandwagon fans), Tim believes there is hope for them to become real fans. In addition to touching up on the team's history, he believes showing loyalty will weed out the bandwagon fans from the ones who actually became fans in the past five years.

"If they are new to the game, they can prove their worth by sticking with the team through tough times, " he said. "Because it's easy to like the hot team when you first start following the sport."

Entering the Bruins second-round series versus the Rangers, Tim didn't think his team would advance. Now that his team has a 3-1 lead (lost Thursday in Game 4), he believes advancing to the Eastern Conference Finals is a given "barring collapse", but doesn't see them advancing past the Penguins in the next round.

"I don't think they are consistent enough offensively to beat the Penguins though, but they will give them a good fight," said Tim, who now has the Penguins over the Sharks (after revising it from a Blues over Rangers prediction before the playoffs started).



Penguin Pride

The last fan profile is on Don, who became a Penguins fan with help from his cousins and brother, with a little help from Mario Lemieux being a staple of the team when Don was a kid. Like the hockey fans above, his lack of exposure to the Blackhawks made his interest draw to a different squad.

"When I got into hockey, it was hard to watch a Hawks game with them not being televised," Don said.

His Penguins won the Cup in 2009, so seeing the best championship trophy in sports go to the hometown team the next year should have been tough on Don - but it wasn't.

"I was out with friends who were Hawks fans at a bar and took it as an opportunity to celebrate," he said, "seeing as though the Pens won the year before and I didn't do much for that."

Don finds the bandwagon Blackhawks fans to be annoying and more focused on social interaction with their friends while the game is on instead of intently following the action of the games. He does believe these bandwagon fans can become real fans if they try to educate themselves on the game.

"Real fans follow their team every day. They know all the players, when the games are, who they're playing against," Don said. "They know who's hurt or who's a scratch. They aren't there just for social interaction."

Making it a clean sweep among the out-of-market fans, Don is sticking with his prediction and bet from a few months ago that the Penguins will win the Stanley Cup. As a witness to his prediction, I can say that he had the Penguins over the Red Wings before the playoffs started.

"I think they have a real good shot at the Cup," he said. "But I thought that two months ago too when I bet it!"


5/22/2013

Get Busy Livin': Why We Need Perspective on a Daily Basis

One word that has confused me lately: perspective. As in, why does it take the worst things around us to use this word so freely?

From the shootings at the school in Newtown to the Boston Marathon bombing, I heard this word a lot: perspective. These tragedies make those who were lucky enough not to be affected by it to say that these horrible events give them perspective to what really matters in life: family, friends, relationships, love. In general, everything great in life.

But why does it take tragedies and bad things around us to get this perspective? Do we take life for granted all of the other days in life? Perhaps I take some stuff for granted, but I try to enjoy every breath I take and every moment I have with the people I love and care about. While I think we could all use a little perspective from time to time, I don't think we should have to rely on large-scale tragedies to make us realize things that we should realize all the time.

What inspired this perspective blog? It wasn't any of the items mentioned above, nor was it the recent tragedies in Oklahoma due to the unreal storms, including devastating EF-5 tornadoes that completely destroyed a city near Oklahoma City.




If you've seen the above video before, then you likely know the story of Zach Sobiech, who passed away on Monday after a 3.5 year battle with osteosarcoma, which is a cancerous bone tumor that develops in children (The video above describes it in more detail). During his battle with the disease, which he knew would take his life at a very young age, Zach adhered to the Andy Dufresne philosophy from Shawshank Redemption of "get busy living or get busy dying." Part of this living was through song, as he demonstrated above with his song that recognized his nearing death and unwillingness to let it define the rest of his time on Earth.

His family and friends knew of his fate too, and while it was hard for them to deal with the fate of their loved one dying way too young, they knew they had to have the same outlook on life that Zach had. It didn't do Zach or his loved ones any good to stress about the short time left he had when there was still plenty of living to do. So as demonstrated in the video below, they cherished every moment they had together (note, this video is a little longer but is well worth the watch if you have the time.



I recommend looking up his story if you want to know more details of what exactly he went through and some of the lives he's touched. I only learned of this story yesterday (unfortunately, after I heard that he had passed) and was amazed at the attitude he carried based on the video and documentary seen above. There's also a celebrity video that was created by Soul Pancake (a Rainn Wilson - aka Dwight Schrute from the Office - production) of people singing Zach's song.

It's stories like Zach's that justify the way I live every day. For we are all just like Zach, more than we realize. Our days here are finite, for all of us. We all wish to live as productive and as long of a life as we can, but there are no guarantees.

The main difference with Zach and us is that he had a really good idea of when he was going to die, so he decided that he would make the most of his time while he was still here. Just because we don't know our end date doesn't mean we shouldn't live like every day is important and every moment is important - because it is.

I know we all get caught up in life, which causes us to take steps back when shocking things happen that make us reflect. But at no time should we ever lose sight of what is or should be important to us on a daily basis: our loved ones, friends and family, the moments we have with them. That's something I will never need perspective on.

5/20/2013

At the Quarter Pole - MLB So Far

While the All-Star game is when most baseball analysts start breaking down the baseball season so far and what is to come, but I like to break baseball up into quarters. Much like high school, except this class has way more fun numbers to play with. And gambling.

Quarters tend to give a decent (although not entirely accurate) model into how we should expect the season to play out. Here were the standings last year after May 20th. Bolded w/o italics indicates the eventual division champ; bolded w/ italics indicates Wild Card entry:

2012 MLB Standings after May 20th

Balt - 27-15
TB - 25-17
Tor - 23-19
NYY - 21-20
Bost - 20-21

Cle 23-18
CWS - 21-21
Det - 20-21
KC - 16-24
Min - 14-27

Tex - 26-16
Oak - 21-21
Sea - 19-24
LAA - 18-24

Atl - 26-16
Wash - 24-17
NYM - 22-19
Mia - 22-19
Phil - 21-21

Stl - 22-19
Cin - 21-19
Pit - 19-22
Hou - 18-23
Mil - 17-24
Cubs - 15-26

LA - 28-13
SF - 21-20
Ari - 19-23
SD - 16-26
Col - 15-25

The most fascinating stuff about these standings? Two things:


  1. None of the teams that eventually won the division were leading at this point of the year, although 4 of the 6 that were leading did end up with all of the 4 wild card entries into the playoffs. Three of the eventual division champs overcame a 5+ game deficit with the division leader at this juncture.
  2. Four of the six current division leaders were also the leaders at this point last year. Arizona and Boston are the only differences.


So for those of you penciling in all the division winners to hold on, remember that the season in long and that none of the division winners last year at this point held on to win the division. I'm willing to bet that at least one of the current division leaders is destined to be at the top when the season ends.

Current division leaders: NYY (0.5 games up); Cleveland (2 games up); Texas (6.5 games up); Atlanta (2.5 games up); St. Louis (2.5 games up); Arizona (1 game up). My guess? Texas & Atlanta hold up.

As was stated in my predictions blog, I made several bets for the 2013 season. Here's the predictions blog for reference  and also my official bets for 2013 before the season began (note: I added  $15 more to my Indians division bet at +1450 a few weeks ago). Let's have some fun with these:
  • Raise your hand if you bet on Houston to win over 59.5 games *raises hand in disgust, in process of flushing a Benjamin in the toilet*. Currently, Houston is 12-32. In order to reach 60 wins, they need to go 48-70 down the stretch. I don't feel good about the start, but I have to remember that only requires a 40.6% win percentage down the stretch. I put my chances of winning this bet at around 30%.
  • I laid heavy juice on Tampa Bay (Over 86) & Cleveland (Over 77.5) and also threw a little cash on each to win their divisions. So far, Tampa is right around the pace required (23-20 record ~ 86.65 wins with the current percentage), while Cleveland is two clear of the rest of the AL Central, sitting pretty at 25-17. Tampa needs to go 64-55 to win my bet, while Cleveland can go 53-67 and still win me my wins bet. I believe Tampa's best ball is coming - their ERA (4.42) will only get better. Even with a slight regression in hitting, I think Tampa still has a good/great chance of winning this division. Obviously I feel better about Cleveland's chances to cash the win bet at the moment, but the Indians have blown good starts the past few years, so I'm not holding my breath. Still though, a nice start. I put my chances of winning the Tampa wins bet at around 54%; division bet at 30%. Meanwhile, I put my chances of winning Cleveland wins bet at around 70%; division bet at 35%. Detroit should still win the division, but Cleveland's bats could carry them to division crown.
  • San Diego was my other over bet (74.5 wins). A slow start had me doubting this bet, but a resurgence in the offense has increase my confidence in this ten-fold (14-8 in their last 22 games). They may only be 20-23, but I do think San Diego has a great shot to be a sleeper team to make the Wild Card. In order to reach the wins total, the Padres need to go 55-64 down the stretch. I believe they will crack 80 wins and contend for a Wild Card, so my confidence in this bet is at 70%
  • My only under bet was the Blue Jays going under 89 wins. A 17-26 starts means that Toronto would need to go 73-46 (61%) while playing in baseball's best division. Needless to say, I put my chances of winning this bet at 85% (since anything can happen, but I feel really good about this).
  • Other division bet I made was on the Phillies, who sport a 21-23 record and sit 4.5 games back of the Braves. I don't give the Phils much better than a 15-20% chance to win this.
  • Player props - Jay Bruce and Yoenis Cespedes most HRs in MLB. It took Bruce forever to hit a home run (now he has 5), while Cespedes just nailed his 8th. They both trail Justin Upton (14) by a significant amount. However, a little streak for either of these guys can put them right in it. My chance of winning either of these bets is about 2-3%.


5/18/2013

Uncle Brian


Understanding my feelings at this moment
Now is when I start to grasp the feeling of what this
Could feel like, this new member to the family, the newest
Love of our lives. What an amazing feeling this is to
Everyone around us. Here is the newest
The newest Bolek - my awesome (yet to be named) nephew

Bolek to the world, probably not
Ready for the craziness of the family, but
I know that this child will be brought into
A world of immense love. The Boleks and Zipsies
Now have a true bloodline. Brought to us from Jeff & Amber's love.


I still can't process what this title means. I cried the moment I read the text around the 1am mark of today  from my sister that said that we would be the proud uncle/aunt of our brother and sister-in-law's baby very shortly. (welcome to 2013 as far as news alerts go!)

And yes, I squeezed one last workout in before the news was official, as I had to see if I broke the 200 pound barrier as part of my goal to reach 199.9 or lower by the time I became an uncle (I didn't - but that's ok). I will break that 200 barrier when he is a few weeks old. Never mind that - I'm an uncle!

For a man who usually has a thousand words to say on a subject, being an uncle has made me speechless. It's truly a humbling experience that makes me smile from ear to ear. Just to say the words Uncle Brian have to pale in comparison to what Jeff and Amber are thinking as they process the days ahead where they will be called "Dad" and "Mom" (or some baby offshoot of that) in about a year or so.

I can't wait to have a beer (or if he's like my brother, a Squirt) with him and watch football with him (or if he's like my brother, watch him run around like a spaz).

I can't wait to teach him on why the Niners will cover the 6.5 point spread this week.

But most importantly, I can't wait to see the little guy grow up.

Congrats to my brother and his lovely wife on their new baby boy. The boy has broken the streak of girls being born on my mom's side of the family. The last boy born? My brother almost 28 years ago, of course. Since then, from my sister to my youngest cousin, there were six girls born in a row (a span of almost 24 years).

I can't wait to see this little bundle of joy later today.

Uncle Brian. Awesome.